I started this blog because I’ve never really been talkative. It’s a way for me to open and let things out instead of holding things in. Then lashing out at someone. I was always taught to be observant and to be prepared. “The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room.” Mom always told me. I tend to be more talkative and open around people that I know and know me. It’s a comfortability thing for me. I don’t like big crowds and clubs. But I am trying something different because I feel like I am at a great place in my life having gone through things. I never really gave a flying fuck about what people say about me or what I do. Someone is always going to have something to say regardless if you’re doing good or bad. So, I am doing this for ME. My sanity, my mental health, my spirit, to help me be a better person, a better woman, and a better mom to my daughter. In a way I feel like this can be cleansing and healing for my soul.
Help me see things in a different light from different angles, through my lens.
(Mary J. Blige – “Good Woman Down”)