What is LOVE?

I think love is supposed to be kind, gentle, passionate, trust, understanding, happy, dreamy and caring among other things.  Thinking about love and seeing other people in love like my friends and in the movies.  I don’t think I was ever in love.   I can’t even say I have love for some people to be […]

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Why I started my blog

I started this blog because I’ve never really been talkative. It’s a way for me to open and let things out instead of holding things in. Then lashing out at someone. I was always taught to be observant and to be prepared.  “The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room.” […]

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“I’ve been here like 13 times because I’m white and I’m rich.” – Little girl at Disney World. My friend went to Disney World to get away.  This place is supposed to be magical and dreamy.  Free of everything.  As she’s walking through the park, she hears a little girl say this.  My first thought […]

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You must give respect to get respect. Most people lack to know the definition of the word respect. Respect isn’t just not cursing during an argument if that person isn’t cursing at you. Its treating others like you want them to treat you. If someone asks you to do something and you either don’t do […]

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She Saved Me…

Being in a relationship can take a lot out of a person.  It can feel like a second or third job.  Being in a toxic relationship can be mentally challenging.  Until you set yourself free from the bullshit.  You realize there is a lot more to life.  After leaving this relationship I was in a […]

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